PEER PRESSURE

March 22

Bible Reading: John 12:37-50

John 12:42-43, “Nevertheless, many even of the authorities believed in him, but for fear of the Pharisees they did not confess it, so that they would not be put out of the synagogue; for they loved the glory that comes from man more than the glory that comes from God.”

Peer pressure is the process whereby members of a peer group exert influence over other members to conform them to certain beliefs and behaviors.  Peer pressure is nothing new, though technology has worked to provide new avenues for applying such pressure.  A steady stream of goofy and even dangerous ideas and challenges sweep across social media and through so-called “influencers.”  Peer pressure demands conformity to such things, but conformity to the world’s way of thinking and living is not a virtuous objective (Romans 12:1-2).

Though Jesus had done so many signs before them, the people, generally speaking, still did not believe in Him (John 12:37).  And though there were some, even from the authorities who believed, they were afraid to speak the truth lest they be put out of the synagogue.  They were more concerned with pleasing men, than with pleasing God.

Charles Spurgeon

It should be noted, however, that there are always those more courageous examples who seek God’s approval vs. man’s applause.  Nicodemus was one such man.  He had previously come to Jesus by night, wondering about Jesus’ miracles (John 3:1-2).  On a subsequent occasion, he spoke up for Jesus before his peers (John 7:50-51).  Then, after Jesus died, Nicodemus risked it all when he worked to prepare Jesus’ body for burial, at costly expense to himself (John 19:39-40). 

While sources outside of the Bible can be unreliable, church tradition claims that Nicodemus lost his position as a Pharisee and the authorities later banished him from Jerusalem.  But in standing on the side of truth, resisting peer pressure, he chose the better path and gained a noble legacy.

Living for God’s approval is better than living for man’s applause.

NEVER BE AFRAID
Never be afraid to speak for Jesus,
Think how much a word can do;
Never be afraid to own your Saviour,
He who loves and cares for you.

Chorus:
Never be afraid, never be afraid,
Never, never, never,
Jesus is your loving Saviour,
Therefore never be afraid.

Never be afraid to work for Jesus,
In his vineyard day by day;
Labor with a kind and willing spirit,
He will all your toil repay. [Chorus]

Never be afraid to bear for Jesus,
Keen reproaches when they fall.
Patiently endure your every trial,
Jesus meekly bore them all. [Chorus]

Never be afraid to live for Jesus;
If you on his care depend,
Safely shall you pass through every trial,
He will bring you to the end. [Chorus]

Never be afraid to die for Jesus;
He the life, the truth, the way,
Gently in his arms of love will bear,
To the realms of endless day. [Chorus]

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Author: looking2jesus13

Jerry Conklin, born and raised in Hillsboro, Oregon, served six years in the US Navy Submarine service. After earning a degree in Nuclear Technology, he worked at Trojan Nuclear Plant as a reactor operator. In 1990, after earning a Masters Degree in Theology, he became the senior pastor of Lewis and Clark Bible Church in Astoria for 27 years, also serving as a fire department chaplain and making nine trips to Uganda for ministry work. After his wife’s cancer diagnosis, they moved to Heppner. Since 2021, he has served as the part-time hospice chaplain for Pioneer Hospice. In 2023 he helped establish South Morrow County Seniors Matter (SMCSM) and now serves at the board chairman. In February 2025 Jerry was honored as Heppner’s Man of the Year. In March 2025 Jerry was honored by US Senator Jeff Merkley for his work with SMCSM. Jerry and Laura have four children and three grandchildren.

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