NOVEMBER 2

War of Words, Part 2

Bible Reading: 1 Peter 2:21-23; Ephesians 4:29

John 7:46, “Never has a man spoke the way this man speaks.”

That little ditty, “Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me,” is simply not true.  Our words have tremendous power, power to either heal or hurt, to encourage or discourage, or to bring joy or cause sorrow.  We can build others up with our words or tear them down.  In the deep recesses of my memory are things I heard even so far back as my childhood that were especially hurtful, and other loving things that helped me along.

The God-man Jesus Christ was born into a world of troubled tongues.  His speech was according to His nature, full of “grace and truth” (John 1:14).  He spoke only truth, but His speech was also always characterized by grace.  He who knew no sin and never sinned had a perfect tongue.  The religious leaders once sent men to arrest Jesus.  When they returned without Him, the leaders asked why.  Their response, “Never has a man spoke the way this man speaks (John 7:46)! Never indeed!  The extent of man’s tongue troubles was dramatically demonstrated at the cross.  Jesus, the creator of all things, had come into the world to save (1 Timothy 1:15).  He purposed to go to that cross for lost sinners like you and me.  Though He had done nothing wrong, He was falsely accused and tried and convicted.  Then the multitudes cried out for His crucifixion!  As He hung on the cross, He was mocked and insulted—by the leaders, the soldiers, those passing by, and even by the two thieves who were crucified with Him (until one experienced a change of heart).  As they hurled insults, He spoke contrary words, saying, “Father, forgive them; for they do not know what they are doing” (Luke 23:34).  How contrary was Jesus to the ways of men!  How glorious is the measure of His grace!  Against the backdrop of such a cacophony of misery and hate, His words from the cross stand as the most melodious ever uttered.  His death on the cross is of sin “the double-cure,” cleansing from its “guilt and power.”  In Him alone, by faith in Him alone, do we find both forgiveness of sins and His power to be changed.

The Apostle Peter would later write of how we, as believers, need to follow Jesus’ example, saying, “For you have been called for this purpose, since Christ also suffered for you, leaving you an example to follow in His steps, who committed no sin, nor was any deceit found in His mouth; and while being reviled, He did not revile in return; while suffering, He uttered no threats, but kept entrusting Himself to Him who judges righteously” (1 Peter 2:21-23).  Peter then went on to say: “To sum up, all of you be harmonious, sympathetic, brotherly, kindhearted, and humble in spirit; not returning evil for evil or insult for insult, but giving a blessing instead. For the one who desires life, to love and see good days, must keep his tongue from evil and his lips from speaking deceit.” (1 Peter 3:8-10).

Ephesians 4:29 is a great verse to memorize and put into practice!  It says, “Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear.” Someone has put together a little acrostic which speaks to some of what we find here: THINK before you speak—Is it True? Is it Helpful? Is it Inspiring? Is it Necessary?  Is it Kind?  You’ve the power, in the words you use, to be of great encouragement to someone on this very day!

Take my voice and let me sing always, only for my King
Take my lips and let them be filled with messages from Thee

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Author: looking2jesus13

Jerry L. Conklin was born and raised in Hillsboro, Oregon. After graduating from high school, he enlisted in the United States Navy and served for six years in the Navy’s Nuclear Power Program. He was assigned to the USS *Omaha* (SSN-692), a nuclear-powered fast-attack submarine, where he served as a reactor-plant electrical operator. His military service took him to ports and locations throughout the world and provided extensive technical training, leadership experience, and an enduring appreciation for those who serve in the Armed Forces. Following his Navy service, Jerry earned a bachelor’s degree in Nuclear Technology from Thomas Edison State University. He worked at the Trojan Nuclear Plant near Rainier, Oregon, first as a reactor operator and later as a training specialist. After sensing God’s call to pastoral ministry, he left the nuclear-power industry and earned a master’s degree in theology from Western Conservative Baptist Seminary in Portland, Oregon. Jerry served for twenty-seven and a half years as senior pastor of Lewis and Clark Bible Church in Astoria, Oregon. During those years, he preached and taught the Scriptures, provided pastoral counseling, performed weddings and memorial services, trained church leaders, and served individuals and families throughout the community. He also served as a fire department chaplain and participated in a variety of community ministries. After retiring from full-time pastoral ministry, Jerry and his wife, Laura, moved to Heppner, Oregon. There he served for approximately four years as a chaplain with Pioneer Memorial Home Health and Hospice, providing spiritual and emotional support to more than 150 patients and their families. In 2023, the Oregon Association for Home Care honored him as its Chaplain of the Year. Jerry also helped establish South Morrow County Seniors Matter, a nonprofit organization created to address the needs of older adults following the COVID-19 pandemic. As chairman, he worked with community leaders and volunteers to develop a weekly senior meal program, a monthly veterans’ lunch, and other activities and services. The organization served hundreds of seniors, mobilized more than 200 volunteers, and received statewide and national recognition. In 2025, Jerry was named Heppner’s Man of the Year, and his community service was later recognized by United States Senator Jeff Merkley. International missions have also been an important part of Jerry’s ministry. He has made ten trips to Uganda, where he has taught at pastors’ conferences, preached in churches, participated in Bible-school graduations, distributed Bibles and Christian materials, and encouraged local pastors and ministry leaders. He developed the discipleship booklet *First Steps with Jesus* to help new believers understand and grow in their faith. Jerry is the author of numerous books, Bible studies, devotionals, and teaching resources, including works centered on prayer, Christian hope, spiritual growth, and the person of Jesus Christ. His decades of preaching and teaching reflect his commitment to presenting biblical truth clearly, practically, and faithfully. Jerry and Laura were married for nearly forty-two years and raised four children. They were also blessed with three grandchildren. Laura passed away in August 2025 following an eight-and-a-half-year battle with cancer. Jerry currently lives in Hillsboro, where he helps care for his elderly father. He continues to preach, teach, write, and serve others through pastoral and community ministry.

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