MAN OF SORROWS

October 19

Bible Reading: Hebrews 5

John 11:35, “Jesus wept.”

Luke 19:41-44, “And when he drew near and saw the city, he wept over it, saying, ‘Would that you, even you, had known on this day the things that make for peace! But now they are hidden from your eyes. For the days will come upon you, when your enemies will set up a barricade around you and surround you and hem you in on every side and tear you down to the ground, you and your children within you. And they will not leave one stone upon another in you, because you did not know the time of your visitation.’”

Hebrews 5:7, “In the days of his flesh, Jesus offered up prayers and supplications, with loud cries and tears, to him who was able to save him from death, and he was heard because of his reverence.”

You’ve read no doubt, of how Jesus wept at a funeral.  The “man of sorrows”…who was “acquainted with grief,” wept, though He was well aware that He would soon raise Lazarus from the dead.  The One who took on human flesh to rescue lost humans, embraced the sorrow of the grieving, with the full understanding of death’s ultimate cause and cure.  He wept at that funeral because He cared.  Love would lead Him down a sorrow-filled path and to a cross which would work to put death to death.

The Scriptures reveal two other occasions in which Jesus wept.  He wept over the city of Jerusalem.  “He came to that which was his own, but his own did not receive him” (John 1:11).  Their rejection would bring unimaginable suffering and death when Rome besieged and destroyed Jerusalem in AD 70. Jesus knew all about it and he wept.  He had come to save.  He would give His all.  But hardened hearts had no room for Him!  It is a glorious truth that God “desires all people to be saved” (1 Timothy 2:4).  Contrarily, the eternal doom of those who “do not obey the gospel” is good cause for tears (2 Thessalonians 1:8-9; Romans 9:1-3).

Finally, our text here in Hebrews speaks again of the tears of Jesus, “when he “offered up prayers and supplication, with loud cries and tears” (Hebrews 5:7).  Our thinking is drawn back to the Garden of Gethsemane.  We are told that Jesus was “sorrowful, even to death” (Matthew 26:38), and that being in agony at that “his sweat became as great drops of blood falling to the ground” (Luke 22:44).  The “Man of Sorrows” was to drink His own cup of sorrows, and He was well aware of the unimaginable pain and suffering lay ahead in taking on the sin of the world (John 1:29; 2 Corinthians 5:21).  He prayed three times, asking if it were possible that the cup would be removed from Him.  But the cup was according to the Father’s will, and as always, He embraced that.  The triumph over sin and death would come at infinite cost. “Yet it was the will of the Father to crush him (and) put him to grief” (Isaiah 53:10).

Phil Newton

Jesus wept on the way to the way to the cross, so we could one day reside in a place where there’ll be no more tears.

Does Jesus care when my heart is pained
Too deeply for mirth or song;
As the burdens press, and the cares distress,
And the way grows weary and long?

O yes, He cares- I know He cares!
His heart is touched with my grief;
When the days are weary, the long nights dreary,
I know my Savior cares.

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Author: looking2jesus13

Jerry L. Conklin was born and raised in Hillsboro, Oregon. After graduating from high school, he enlisted in the United States Navy and served for six years in the Navy’s Nuclear Power Program. He was assigned to the USS *Omaha* (SSN-692), a nuclear-powered fast-attack submarine, where he served as a reactor-plant electrical operator. His military service took him to ports and locations throughout the world and provided extensive technical training, leadership experience, and an enduring appreciation for those who serve in the Armed Forces. Following his Navy service, Jerry earned a bachelor’s degree in Nuclear Technology from Thomas Edison State University. He worked at the Trojan Nuclear Plant near Rainier, Oregon, first as a reactor operator and later as a training specialist. After sensing God’s call to pastoral ministry, he left the nuclear-power industry and earned a master’s degree in theology from Western Conservative Baptist Seminary in Portland, Oregon. Jerry served for twenty-seven and a half years as senior pastor of Lewis and Clark Bible Church in Astoria, Oregon. During those years, he preached and taught the Scriptures, provided pastoral counseling, performed weddings and memorial services, trained church leaders, and served individuals and families throughout the community. He also served as a fire department chaplain and participated in a variety of community ministries. After retiring from full-time pastoral ministry, Jerry and his wife, Laura, moved to Heppner, Oregon. There he served for approximately four years as a chaplain with Pioneer Memorial Home Health and Hospice, providing spiritual and emotional support to more than 150 patients and their families. In 2023, the Oregon Association for Home Care honored him as its Chaplain of the Year. Jerry also helped establish South Morrow County Seniors Matter, a nonprofit organization created to address the needs of older adults following the COVID-19 pandemic. As chairman, he worked with community leaders and volunteers to develop a weekly senior meal program, a monthly veterans’ lunch, and other activities and services. The organization served hundreds of seniors, mobilized more than 200 volunteers, and received statewide and national recognition. In 2025, Jerry was named Heppner’s Man of the Year, and his community service was later recognized by United States Senator Jeff Merkley. International missions have also been an important part of Jerry’s ministry. He has made ten trips to Uganda, where he has taught at pastors’ conferences, preached in churches, participated in Bible-school graduations, distributed Bibles and Christian materials, and encouraged local pastors and ministry leaders. He developed the discipleship booklet *First Steps with Jesus* to help new believers understand and grow in their faith. Jerry is the author of numerous books, Bible studies, devotionals, and teaching resources, including works centered on prayer, Christian hope, spiritual growth, and the person of Jesus Christ. His decades of preaching and teaching reflect his commitment to presenting biblical truth clearly, practically, and faithfully. Jerry and Laura were married for nearly forty-two years and raised four children. They were also blessed with three grandchildren. Laura passed away in August 2025 following an eight-and-a-half-year battle with cancer. Jerry currently lives in Hillsboro, where he helps care for his elderly father. He continues to preach, teach, write, and serve others through pastoral and community ministry.

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