THE CAUSE OF QUARRELS

November 6

Bible Reading: James 4

James 4:1-6, “What causes quarrels and what causes fights among you?  Is it not this that your passions are at war within you?  You desire and do not have, so you murder.  You covet and cannot obtain, so you fight and quarrel.  You do not have, because you do not ask.  You ask and do not receive, because you ask wrongly, to spend it on your passions.  You adulterous people!  Do you not know that friendship with the world is enmity with God?  Therefore, whoever wishes to be a friend of the world makes himself an enemy of God.  Or do you suppose it is to no purpose that the Scripture says, ‘He yearns jealously over the spirit that he has made to dwell in us’?  But he gives more grace.  Therefore, it says, ‘God opposes the proud, but gives grace to the humble.”

In a straightforward manner, James identifies the cause of the quarrels and fights that typify human existence on this planet.  The discord of which he speaks is pervasive—in marriages, families, churches, communities, and countries—and even exists amongst those professing faith in God.

What is at the source of the problem?  The word “passions” occurs twice in this passage.  It translates the Greek term “hedone” which speaks of “the gratification of the nature desire or sinful desire” (Vine’s Expository Dictionary of New Testament Words).  It is the word from which the English term hedonism is derived.  Hedonism is “the doctrine that pleasure or happiness is the sole or chief good in life” (Webster’s New Collegiate Dictionary).  The other particularly relevant words used in this passage are the terms “desire” and “covet.”  The first translates a Greek term which refers to evil desires.  The second speaks to the zealous pursuit of such things.

It is the continual lusting after things that is at the heart of the problem.  Man was created to find fulfillment and enjoyment in His Creator, but sin deceitfully distorts man’s way of thinking.  “The desires of the flesh and the desires of the eyes and pride of life” demand fulfillment (1 John 2:16).  The devil and the world would have us to believe that happiness is to be gained through pleasure (the desires of the flesh), profit (the lust of the eyes), or position (pride of life).  Man zealously pursues these things, although they can never provide true and lasting fulfillment and true joy.  They represent mere passing pleasures (Hebrews 11:25).

It is this always-wanting-more aspect of sin that works to put us at odds with one another.  Pleasure needs to be fueled.  Profit needs to be increased.  Pride demands more attention.  These things are often secured at the expense of others.  This sin borne attitude does not need to be learned, it is ours by nature.  It in in-bred in us through our relationship to Adam (Romans 5:12).  Adam and Eve sinned.  Then Cain murdered his brother.  Man has been fighting with one another ever since.  It doesn’t take too long for a seemingly innocent child to grow to display a propensity for selfish behavior.  The word “mine” soon enters a child’s vocabulary.  Children don’t need to be trained in how to fight over toys.

To live according to the dictates of one’s passions is to be a friend with the world.  The world functions according to “looking out for number one” way of thinking.  Passions are pursued according to a “whatever it takes to get ahead” philosophy.  But to befriend the world and live that way is to be at enmity with God (James 4:4).  God desires something better for us.  “He yearns jealously over the spirit that he has made to dwell in us” (James 4:5).  He deeply desires that we live according to His better purpose.  The world, the flesh, and the devil conspire to mire us in a quagmire of selfish pursuits, but “he gives more grace” (James 4:6).

“God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble” (James 4:6).  Humility is a sure antidote to the prideful attitudes and passions that give rise to such discord.  Humility involves an honest assessment of one’s self in light of God’s holiness and our own sinfulness.  Such a spirit-borne assessment is an absolute necessity.  Pride puts us at odds, both with God and with others.  But in humility, we relate to others according to God’s design.  The various problems addressed in this chapter: quarrels and fighting, sinful judgment of others, and sinful presumption, are all rooted in pride (James 4:1-17).  Pride and passions lead to discord, but humility bears a better fruit (Philippians 2:3-8; Ephesians 4:1-3).  James summarizes the matter this way: “Humble yourself before the Lord, and he will exalt you” (James 4:10).

Pride and passions lead to discord, but humility bears a better fruit.

Make me a servant
Humble and meek
Lord let me lift up
Those who are weak
And may the prayer
Of my heart always be
Make me a servant
Make me a servant
Make me a servant today

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Author: looking2jesus13

Jerry Conklin, born and raised in Hillsboro, Oregon, served six years in the US Navy Submarine service. After earning a degree in Nuclear Technology, he worked at Trojan Nuclear Plant as a reactor operator. In 1990, after earning a Masters Degree in Theology, he became the senior pastor of Lewis and Clark Bible Church in Astoria for 27 years, also serving as a fire department chaplain and making nine trips to Uganda for ministry work. After his wife’s cancer diagnosis, they moved to Heppner. Since 2021, he has served as the part-time hospice chaplain for Pioneer Hospice. In 2023 he helped establish South Morrow County Seniors Matter (SMCSM) and now serves at the board chairman. In February 2025 Jerry was honored as Heppner’s Man of the Year. In March 2025 Jerry was honored by US Senator Jeff Merkley for his work with SMCSM. Jerry and Laura have four children and three grandchildren.

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