May 9
Bible Reading: John 19:25-30
John 19:26-27, “When Jesus saw his mother and the disciple whom he loved standing nearby, he said to his mother, ‘Woman, behold, your son!’ Then he said to the disciple, ‘Behold, your mother!’”
My mom, Marlene, died 21 years ago after a months-long battle with an aggressive cancer. She died trusting Jesus, for which I’m extremely grateful. Before she died, she had some last words for all us children and for her grandchildren as well. We rightly count the last words of a person as precious because pending death refines one’s words, reflecting their character and deepest thoughts.
Jesus shared some last words with us all, in what is commonly referred to as His “seven sayings from the cross.” Here in John chapter 19, we find three “sayings” recorded. But it is best to consider them all and in their chronological order.
- “Father, forgive them; for they do not know what they are doing” (Luke 23:34).
- “Truly I say to you, today you shall be with Me in Paradise” (Luke 23:43).
- “Woman, behold, your son” … “Behold, your mother” (John 19:25–27)!
- “My God, My God, why have You forsaken Me” (Matthew 27:46; Mark 15:34)?
- “I am thirsty” (John 19:28).
- “It is finished” (John 19:30).
- “Father, into your hands I commit My spirit” (Luke 23:46).
So, what do we find in these last words of Jesus? There are words of distress and even agony, especially as He experienced the Father’s wrath in bearing our sins. And there are words of love in expressing forgiveness to all and in His compassionate concern for His mother. Jesus spoke hope-filled words to the repentant thief and as He committed His spirit to the Father. He also spoke those three triumphant words, “It is finished,” which birthed the good news of salvation in His finished work on the cross.
What you won’t find are expressions of anxiety or anger or any derogatory statements of any kind. This although He was being unjustly punished and subjected to the mockery and taunts of those around Him. And in that He’s left us an example, even as Peter drew attention to Jesus’ last words and exhorted us to follow in His steps (1 Peter 2:21-23). Jesus is the best example for us in every virtuous way, and we do well to consider what He had to say as He was confronting death, as His last words speak to the glory of who He is.
He that was full of grace and truth spoke that way as He died on the cross!
NEAR THE CROSS
Jesus, keep me near the cross,
There a precious fountain—
Free to all, a healing stream—
Flows from Calv’ry’s mountain.
Refrain:
In the cross, in the cross,
Be my glory ever;
Till my raptured soul shall find
Rest beyond the river.
Near the cross, a trembling soul,
Love and Mercy found me;
There the bright and morning star
Sheds its beams around me.
Near the cross! O Lamb of God,
Bring its scenes before me;
Help me walk from day to day,
With its shadows o’er me.
Near the cross I’ll watch and wait
Hoping, trusting ever,
Till I reach the golden strand,
Just beyond the river.
Author: looking2jesus13
Jerry L. Conklin was born and raised in Hillsboro, Oregon. After graduating from high school, he enlisted in the United States Navy and served for six years in the Navy’s Nuclear Power Program. He was assigned to the USS *Omaha* (SSN-692), a nuclear-powered fast-attack submarine, where he served as a reactor-plant electrical operator. His military service took him to ports and locations throughout the world and provided extensive technical training, leadership experience, and an enduring appreciation for those who serve in the Armed Forces.
Following his Navy service, Jerry earned a bachelor’s degree in Nuclear Technology from Thomas Edison State University. He worked at the Trojan Nuclear Plant near Rainier, Oregon, first as a reactor operator and later as a training specialist. After sensing God’s call to pastoral ministry, he left the nuclear-power industry and earned a master’s degree in theology from Western Conservative Baptist Seminary in Portland, Oregon.
Jerry served for twenty-seven and a half years as senior pastor of Lewis and Clark Bible Church in Astoria, Oregon. During those years, he preached and taught the Scriptures, provided pastoral counseling, performed weddings and memorial services, trained church leaders, and served individuals and families throughout the community. He also served as a fire department chaplain and participated in a variety of community ministries.
After retiring from full-time pastoral ministry, Jerry and his wife, Laura, moved to Heppner, Oregon. There he served for approximately four years as a chaplain with Pioneer Memorial Home Health and Hospice, providing spiritual and emotional support to more than 150 patients and their families. In 2023, the Oregon Association for Home Care honored him as its Chaplain of the Year.
Jerry also helped establish South Morrow County Seniors Matter, a nonprofit organization created to address the needs of older adults following the COVID-19 pandemic. As chairman, he worked with community leaders and volunteers to develop a weekly senior meal program, a monthly veterans’ lunch, and other activities and services. The organization served hundreds of seniors, mobilized more than 200 volunteers, and received statewide and national recognition. In 2025, Jerry was named Heppner’s Man of the Year, and his community service was later recognized by United States Senator Jeff Merkley.
International missions have also been an important part of Jerry’s ministry. He has made ten trips to Uganda, where he has taught at pastors’ conferences, preached in churches, participated in Bible-school graduations, distributed Bibles and Christian materials, and encouraged local pastors and ministry leaders. He developed the discipleship booklet *First Steps with Jesus* to help new believers understand and grow in their faith.
Jerry is the author of numerous books, Bible studies, devotionals, and teaching resources, including works centered on prayer, Christian hope, spiritual growth, and the person of Jesus Christ. His decades of preaching and teaching reflect his commitment to presenting biblical truth clearly, practically, and faithfully.
Jerry and Laura were married for nearly forty-two years and raised four children. They were also blessed with three grandchildren. Laura passed away in August 2025 following an eight-and-a-half-year battle with cancer. Jerry currently lives in Hillsboro, where he helps care for his elderly father. He continues to preach, teach, write, and serve others through pastoral and community ministry.
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