YOU ARE NOT ALONE

October 30

Bible Reading: Acts 23:11

Acts 23:11, “The following night the Lord stood by him.”

I’ve sat at the bedside of many dear hospice patients.  Day by day, life ebbs away until the time draws near for them to say goodbye.  As one would imagine, I’ve seen lots of differing kinds of responses to death and dying.  How is one to cope with that greatest of all trials?  People typically experience much pain and heartache when they have to say goodbye to dreams and dear ones during those last steps of life’s journey.  It makes a difference to know that there is One who knows and cares and can walk alongside us on that path.  The promise to those who trust God is that even though we walk through the valley of the shadow of death, God is with us (Psalm 23:4).  That same reality comforted Paul— “The Lord will rescue me from every evil deed and bring me safely into his heavenly kingdom” (2 Timothy 4:18).  If you are compelled to walk an arduous path, its good to be accompanied by the One who defeated death and rose again (2 Corinthians 1:8-9).  There’s much comfort in that!

The Lord was aware of Paul’s challenging circumstances.  Paul didn’t know of the pending plot to kill him, but the Lord knew.  He knew exactly where Paul was and exactly what he needed.  And what he needed more than anything was Jesus’ comfort and reassurance.

The Lord knows of your difficult circumstances too, no matter how big or small.  You may be soon to die (as with our hospice patients), fighting cancer (like my dear wife), or dealing with some other of the many kinds of trials we all face just by living in a sin-broken world.  Perhaps it seems to you that no one knows or understands what you’re going through.  But no matter your circumstances, and even if no one else knows or cares, Jesus knows and cares.  He has promised to never forsake His own and to them imparts a peace that surpasses all understanding (Hebrews 13:5; Philippians 4:7). 

In the tough times, and in dying, there’s no suitable substitute for the comforting and reassuring presence of Jesus.

DOES JESUS CARE?
Does Jesus care when my heart is pained
Too deeply for mirth or song;
As the burdens press, and the cares distress,
And the way grows weary and long?

Refrain:
O yes, He cares- I know He cares!
His heart is touched with my grief;
When the days are weary, the long nights dreary,
I know my Savior cares.

Does Jesus care when my way is dark
With a nameless dread and fear?
As the daylight fades into deep night shades,
Does He care enough to be near? [Refrain]

Does Jesus care when I’ve tried and failed
To resist some temptation strong;
When for my deep grief I find no relief,
Though my tears flow all the night long? [Refrain]

Does Jesus care when I’ve said goodbye
To the dearest on earth to me,
And my sad heart aches till it nearly breaks—
Is it aught to Him? does He see? [Refrain]

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Author: looking2jesus13

Jerry L. Conklin was born and raised in Hillsboro, Oregon. After graduating from high school, he enlisted in the United States Navy and served for six years in the Navy’s Nuclear Power Program. He was assigned to the USS *Omaha* (SSN-692), a nuclear-powered fast-attack submarine, where he served as a reactor-plant electrical operator. His military service took him to ports and locations throughout the world and provided extensive technical training, leadership experience, and an enduring appreciation for those who serve in the Armed Forces. Following his Navy service, Jerry earned a bachelor’s degree in Nuclear Technology from Thomas Edison State University. He worked at the Trojan Nuclear Plant near Rainier, Oregon, first as a reactor operator and later as a training specialist. After sensing God’s call to pastoral ministry, he left the nuclear-power industry and earned a master’s degree in theology from Western Conservative Baptist Seminary in Portland, Oregon. Jerry served for twenty-seven and a half years as senior pastor of Lewis and Clark Bible Church in Astoria, Oregon. During those years, he preached and taught the Scriptures, provided pastoral counseling, performed weddings and memorial services, trained church leaders, and served individuals and families throughout the community. He also served as a fire department chaplain and participated in a variety of community ministries. After retiring from full-time pastoral ministry, Jerry and his wife, Laura, moved to Heppner, Oregon. There he served for approximately four years as a chaplain with Pioneer Memorial Home Health and Hospice, providing spiritual and emotional support to more than 150 patients and their families. In 2023, the Oregon Association for Home Care honored him as its Chaplain of the Year. Jerry also helped establish South Morrow County Seniors Matter, a nonprofit organization created to address the needs of older adults following the COVID-19 pandemic. As chairman, he worked with community leaders and volunteers to develop a weekly senior meal program, a monthly veterans’ lunch, and other activities and services. The organization served hundreds of seniors, mobilized more than 200 volunteers, and received statewide and national recognition. In 2025, Jerry was named Heppner’s Man of the Year, and his community service was later recognized by United States Senator Jeff Merkley. International missions have also been an important part of Jerry’s ministry. He has made ten trips to Uganda, where he has taught at pastors’ conferences, preached in churches, participated in Bible-school graduations, distributed Bibles and Christian materials, and encouraged local pastors and ministry leaders. He developed the discipleship booklet *First Steps with Jesus* to help new believers understand and grow in their faith. Jerry is the author of numerous books, Bible studies, devotionals, and teaching resources, including works centered on prayer, Christian hope, spiritual growth, and the person of Jesus Christ. His decades of preaching and teaching reflect his commitment to presenting biblical truth clearly, practically, and faithfully. Jerry and Laura were married for nearly forty-two years and raised four children. They were also blessed with three grandchildren. Laura passed away in August 2025 following an eight-and-a-half-year battle with cancer. Jerry currently lives in Hillsboro, where he helps care for his elderly father. He continues to preach, teach, write, and serve others through pastoral and community ministry.

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