TONGUE TIED

JULY 17

Psalm 141

Psalm 141:3, “Set a guard, O Lord, over my mouth; keep watch over the door of my lips!”

Remember that humorous scene in A Christmas Story, where Ralphie gets his mouth washed out with soap for saying a bad word? It’s doubtful the soap had much long-term effect. The problem with the tongue runs deeper than a quick external fix.

Psalm 141 is David’s heartfelt cry for help and holiness. Surrounded by evil and temptation, he pleads with God to guard his heart, guide his steps, and—especially—to keep watch over his mouth. “Set a guard, O Lord, over my mouth; keep watch over the door of my lips” (Psalm 141:3). David understood that the tongue, though small, carries great power to bless or to harm.

Scripture offers a sobering picture of our speech. James likens the tongue to a tiny spark that can ignite a great forest fire—“a restless evil, full of deadly poison” (James 3:6–8). Words wound, linger, and often leave deeper scars than we realize. While we may attempt to manage our speech through sheer willpower, the Bible tells us the root issue lies deeper than that. “Out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks” (Luke 6:45). What flows from our lips reveals the condition of our soul.

Only Jesus can transform the heart—and, with it, the tongue. He alone can tame what no human can. Through salvation and the ongoing work of the Holy Spirit, rebellious tongues are redeemed to do what they were created to do: worship God and bless others. Paul writes that those filled with the Spirit speak “to one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs… giving thanks always” (Ephesians 5:19–20).

Jesus, whose words were always full of grace and truth—even when under pressure—calls us to speak as He did: “Do not repay evil for evil or reviling for reviling, but on the contrary, bless” (1 Peter 3:9).

If you want your speech to honor God, start by asking Him to shape your heart. Then, like David, pray: “Set a guard, O Lord, over my mouth.”

“May the mind of Christ my Savior, live in me from day to day, by His love and pow’r controlling all I do and say.” —Kate B. Wilkinson

Application Questions: What situations or relationships tempt you most to speak in ways that are unkind, impatient, or untrue—and how can you seek the Spirit’ help in guiding your words in those moments? Is there someone you’ve hurt with your words—recently or in the past—that God may be prompting you to seek forgiveness from this week?

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Author: looking2jesus13

Jerry L. Conklin was born and raised in Hillsboro, Oregon. After graduating from high school, he enlisted in the United States Navy and served for six years in the Navy’s Nuclear Power Program. He was assigned to the USS *Omaha* (SSN-692), a nuclear-powered fast-attack submarine, where he served as a reactor-plant electrical operator. His military service took him to ports and locations throughout the world and provided extensive technical training, leadership experience, and an enduring appreciation for those who serve in the Armed Forces. Following his Navy service, Jerry earned a bachelor’s degree in Nuclear Technology from Thomas Edison State University. He worked at the Trojan Nuclear Plant near Rainier, Oregon, first as a reactor operator and later as a training specialist. After sensing God’s call to pastoral ministry, he left the nuclear-power industry and earned a master’s degree in theology from Western Conservative Baptist Seminary in Portland, Oregon. Jerry served for twenty-seven and a half years as senior pastor of Lewis and Clark Bible Church in Astoria, Oregon. During those years, he preached and taught the Scriptures, provided pastoral counseling, performed weddings and memorial services, trained church leaders, and served individuals and families throughout the community. He also served as a fire department chaplain and participated in a variety of community ministries. After retiring from full-time pastoral ministry, Jerry and his wife, Laura, moved to Heppner, Oregon. There he served for approximately four years as a chaplain with Pioneer Memorial Home Health and Hospice, providing spiritual and emotional support to more than 150 patients and their families. In 2023, the Oregon Association for Home Care honored him as its Chaplain of the Year. Jerry also helped establish South Morrow County Seniors Matter, a nonprofit organization created to address the needs of older adults following the COVID-19 pandemic. As chairman, he worked with community leaders and volunteers to develop a weekly senior meal program, a monthly veterans’ lunch, and other activities and services. The organization served hundreds of seniors, mobilized more than 200 volunteers, and received statewide and national recognition. In 2025, Jerry was named Heppner’s Man of the Year, and his community service was later recognized by United States Senator Jeff Merkley. International missions have also been an important part of Jerry’s ministry. He has made ten trips to Uganda, where he has taught at pastors’ conferences, preached in churches, participated in Bible-school graduations, distributed Bibles and Christian materials, and encouraged local pastors and ministry leaders. He developed the discipleship booklet *First Steps with Jesus* to help new believers understand and grow in their faith. Jerry is the author of numerous books, Bible studies, devotionals, and teaching resources, including works centered on prayer, Christian hope, spiritual growth, and the person of Jesus Christ. His decades of preaching and teaching reflect his commitment to presenting biblical truth clearly, practically, and faithfully. Jerry and Laura were married for nearly forty-two years and raised four children. They were also blessed with three grandchildren. Laura passed away in August 2025 following an eight-and-a-half-year battle with cancer. Jerry currently lives in Hillsboro, where he helps care for his elderly father. He continues to preach, teach, write, and serve others through pastoral and community ministry.

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